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This is from Sunshine:<\/p>\n

Hi! I LOVE reading all of your posts! I still have the same problem. I am NOT motivated to lose weight and I sure would like to be. What should I do??? I don\u2019t want to exercise or at least not very much. I don\u2019t want to write down and track what I eat. But I DO want to lose weight. I just don\u2019t have the desire or motivation to do it. HELP!!<\/p>\n

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Answer:<\/p>\n

Hi Sunshine,<\/p>\n

My question to you is, who would ever be motivated to lose weight? Yuck! That sounds awful… the deprivation, the scales, the months of restricting, dieting, stressing, obsessing… I don’t blame you for having no desire to do this. What I would recommend is that you reframe your thinking from looking to lose weight to either<\/p>\n

-The motivation to GAIN health.<\/p>\n

-The motivation to LOSE your obsession with food<\/p>\n

– The motivation to GAIN self love, and self esteem<\/p>\n

-The motivation to GAIN body trust.<\/p>\n

-The motivation to GAIN freedom from the restraints that hating your body puts on you<\/p>\n

Are any of these interesting to you? If so, you might want to make a list. \u00a0What would be positive about gaining health? What would be positive about letting go of my obsession with food? What would be positive about staying where I am right now and accepting it? \u00a0Think through all of these different ideas, and then decide what it is that you want to do. \u00a0I’m always a fan of intuitive eating.<\/a> Tuning in to your body to eat what you need when you need it and forgiving yourself when you slip up and moving past it. \u00a0 You might want to check out this blog <\/a>about extreme intuitive eating. \u00a0Love your body for what it can do, not for what it looks like or what size it is. Love it and nurture it and give it what it needs. If it needs kale and egg whites, feed it kale and egg whites, if it needs a buttery english muffin, do the same. But let go of the idea of losing weight. \u00a0Let go of diets. Let go of your need to control. Let go of the idea of losing weight. You say in your email that you don’t have the desire to lose weight. So just let it go, I promise you will be a lot happier.<\/p>\n

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